你身上發(fā)生過這樣的事嗎?你的老板問你能否花一個晚上參加一個聚餐會議，盡管你得去參加你最好朋友的生日晚會。接下來，小編給大家準備了如何在說不的時候不傷害別人,歡迎大家參考與借鑒。

　　如何在說不的時候不傷害別人

　　總有些時候我們必須說不。但如何說才能不使別人不快呢? 以下是一些英語短語，或許能幫助你說不的同時也不會傷害到想找你做事的人的感情。

　　I can't right now, but maybe later. 這意味著將來可能行。

　　Unfortunately, I've had a few things come up. 這是指有意外的事情發(fā)生了。

　　I'm trying to focus1 on finishing off some other things. 這是另一種方式表示你有一些沒有完成的工作。

　　I'm sorry I can't.這直接表明了這對你而言是不可能的。

　　I can't at that time, but I'm happy to help you with something else later. 這是一種非常禮貌的方式。你雖然拒絕了但是卻提供對其他事的幫助。

　　Sorry but that isn't my strong suit.這是另一種表達方式表示你并不擅長此道。

　　I'm sure you will do fine on your own.這是告訴別人自己完成此事的一種非常禮貌的方式。

　　I'm afraid I'm committed2 to something else. 如果你另有計劃可以這么說。

　　I really don't enjoy that kind of activity.或者，我不喜歡做這事。

　　I'm sorry, but I have an emergency to attend to.這是指你有些緊急的事必須要做。

　　擴展：用英語與客戶瀟灑的告別

　　瀟灑告別

　　A: I really must be going1 now.

　　B: But you just got2 here. Can't you stay a little longer?

　　A: That's very nice of you, but I really can't.

　　B Well, it's too bad (遺憾) that you have to go.

　　A: Thanks very much. It was3 a great /lovely party!

　　B: It was our pleasure4.

　　一般道別

　　1. We really enjoyed your company5. (我們喜歡與你為伴。)

　　2. Well, then, perhaps we can get together another time.

　　3. Please give my best regards7 to your sister.

　　4. I'll be seeing you!

　　5. A: Take care8 of yourself9. /Have a good trip. /Enjoy yourself. /Have fun! /Take it easy!

　　6. I shall10 miss all of you. Let's get together soon.

　　7. I hope11 I can see you again. /Let's meet more often.

　　來賓道別

　　8. Well, (I'm afraid) I'd better be on my way /leaving.

　　9. I'm sorry, but I've got to be on my way.

　　10. I'm afraid I stayed too long.

　　11. I think it's about time we got going.

　　12. I really have to rush12. (我真的得趕快。)

　　13. I enjoyed myself13 very much.

　　14. I'm glad to have met you.

　　15. I really enjoyed the meal14.

　　16. I really had15 a pleasant16 /enjoyable /great evening.

　　17. I had lots of fun tonight. /That was a wonderful dinner. /I had a wonderful / great time being18 with you.

　　18. I enjoyed every minute of the party.

　　19. Thank you very much for a wonderful party.

　　20. I hope someday20 maybe you'll be able17 to visit my family in Beijing.

　　21. I really enjoyed talking with you.

　　22. Please don't be in such21 a hurry.

　　23. Would22 you like to stay for dinner.

　　24. Did23 you have a good time today?

　　25. You'll have to come and see us soon.

　　26. A: Thank you for inviting24 me.

　　B: It was a pleasure having you. Please come again.

　　27. A: Thanks for all your hospitality25. B: You're welcome.

　　28. A: Have a nice weekend. B: Same to you.

　　29. A: Thank you for everything.

　　B: Well, have a nice trip and best wishes to your wife26.

　　A: Thanks. I hope we meet again soon.

　　30. A: If you're ever19 in Xi'an, look me up. I'd love to see you again.

　　B: Sure. I will. You can count on that.