Whether it is summer-planning, or coursework planning, or picking a major, or managing your time, you should take control of your life. In the past, I have helped you quite a bit, whether it is in college application, designing your extracurricular activities, or picking the initial coursework. I will always be there for you, but the time has come for you to be in the driver’s seat – this is your life, and you need to be in control. I will always remember the exhilarating feeling in my life –that I got to decide to skip kindergarten, that I got to decide to change to computer science major, that I got to decide to leave academia for Apple, that I got to decide to go to China, that I got to decide to go to Google, and most recently, that I got to decide to start my own business. Being able to decide means you get to live the life that you want to. Life is too short to live the life others do or others want you. Being in control feels great. Try it, and you’ll love it!

　　不管是暑假計(jì)劃，功課規(guī)劃，抑或是選專(zhuān)業(yè)，管理時(shí)間，你都應(yīng)該負(fù)責(zé)你的人生。過(guò)去不管是申請(qǐng)學(xué)校、設(shè)計(jì)課外活動(dòng)或者選擇最初的課程，我都從旁幫助了你不少。以后，我仍然會(huì)一直站你身旁，但是現(xiàn)在是你自己掌舵的時(shí)候了。我常常記起我生命中那些令人振奮的時(shí)刻——在幼兒園決定跳級(jí)，決定轉(zhuǎn)到計(jì)算機(jī)科學(xué)專(zhuān)業(yè)，決定離開(kāi)學(xué)術(shù)界選擇Apple，決定回中國(guó)，決定選擇Google，乃至最近選擇創(chuàng)辦我的新公司。有能力進(jìn)行選擇意味著你會(huì)過(guò)上自己想要的生活。生命太短暫了，你不能過(guò)別人想要你過(guò)的生活。掌控自己的生命是很棒的感覺(jué)，試試吧，你會(huì)愛(ài)上它的!

　　I told your mom I’m writing this letter, and asked what she wanted me to say. She thought and said: “just ask her to take care of herself。” Simple but deeply caring– that is how your mother is, and that is why you love her so much. In this simple sentence is her hope that you will become independent in the way you take care of yourself – that you will remember to take your medicine, that you will get enough sleep, that you will have a balanced diet, that you will get some exercise, and that you will go see a doctor whenever you don’t feel good. An ancient Chinese proverb says that the most important thing to be nice to your parents is to take care of yourself. This is because your parents love you so much, and that if you are well, they will have comfort. You will understand this one day when you become a mother. But in the meantime, please listen to your mother and take care of yourself。

　　我告訴你媽媽我在寫(xiě)這封信，問(wèn)她有什么想對(duì)你說(shuō)的，她想了想，說(shuō)“讓她好好照顧自己”，很簡(jiǎn)單卻飽含著真切的關(guān)心——這一向是你深?lèi)?ài)的媽媽的特點(diǎn)。這短短的一句話，是她想提醒你很多事情，比如要記得自己按時(shí)吃藥，好好睡覺(jué)，保持健康的飲食，適量運(yùn)動(dòng)，不舒服的時(shí)候要去看醫(yī)生等等。中國(guó)有句古語(yǔ)，說(shuō)“身體發(fā)膚，受之父母，不敢毀傷，孝之始也”。這句話的意思用比較新的方法詮釋就是說(shuō)：父母最?lèi)?ài)的就是你，所以照顧好自己就是孝順最好的方法。當(dāng)你成為母親的那天，你就會(huì)理解這些。在那天之前，聽(tīng)媽媽的，你一定要好好照顧自己。

　　【(公眾號(hào)：GDUTCEO)】

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