求職英語(yǔ):如何利用肢體語(yǔ)言打動(dòng)面試官
現(xiàn)在就業(yè)市場(chǎng)競(jìng)爭(zhēng)越來(lái)越激烈,要在日趨激烈的競(jìng)爭(zhēng)中立于不敗之地,成為永遠(yuǎn)的"勝利者",就必須能說(shuō)一口流利的求職英語(yǔ),掌握"面試技巧"。提高面試技巧的關(guān)鍵就在于對(duì)面試官所要提出的問(wèn)題做到胸有成竹。
1. Smile slowly. If you're too quick to come to a smile or drop one, your expression may notlook genuine. Real smiles happen gradually, but remember not to do it too slowly because itcan also look creepy. Do your best to mimic a natural smile by practicing in the mirror.慢慢地微笑。如果你突然微笑或者突然不笑,你的表情看起來(lái)就會(huì)不那么自然。真正的微笑總是很慢的。不過(guò)也不要笑得太慢,那樣也會(huì)顯得很假。盡力在鏡子前練習(xí)一下自然的微笑吧。
2. Speak in a deeper voice. When you're nervous or excited, your voice may come out in ahigher pitch. Take a deep breath and lower your pitch, because a deeper voice is considered tohave more authority and confidence. In fact, even dogs respond better to deeper voiceswhen you are trying to give them a command.用較低的聲音說(shuō)話。如果你很緊張或是很興奮,你的聲音往往會(huì)變得很高。做個(gè)深呼吸降低你的聲音吧,因?yàn)檩^低的聲音會(huì)被認(rèn)為具有更多自主權(quán)和自信心。事實(shí)上,就連狗狗也會(huì)對(duì)更低的聲音更有反應(yīng),當(dāng)你給它們下命令的時(shí)候。
3. Make eye contact. When talking to someone, making eye contact shows interest and alsoconfidence. Don't go overboard and gaze without breaking eye contact, because that can makepeople feel uncomfortable. Spend the majority of the time making eye contact, butremember to briefly take breaks.眼神交流。當(dāng)你和某人交談時(shí),眼神交流能表現(xiàn)出你的興趣和自信。但也不要目不轉(zhuǎn)睛直勾勾地盯著看,那樣會(huì)讓別人感覺(jué)不適。用大部分時(shí)間作眼神交流,但也要記得偶爾放放松。
4. Have good posture. Sit or stand up straight and avoid slouching. Slouching can makeyou look less professional and can possibly make you look less confident and enthusiastic.保持好姿勢(shì)。坐著和站著的時(shí)候要筆直,不要沒(méi)精打采。沒(méi)精打采的樣子會(huì)讓你顯得不專業(yè),也許也會(huì)讓你顯得缺乏自信和熱情。
5. Lean. Move your body slightly forward toward the person you're talking to. This reflectsinterest. However, if you want to show that you're relaxed, lean back a little bit. Don't overdothe leaning or it may either look like you have no idea of what personal space is if you leanforward too much or make you look uninterested and uppity if you lean too far back.身體微傾。讓你的身體向?qū)Ψ轿⑽⑶皟A,這反映了你的興趣。同時(shí),如果你想要表現(xiàn)你很放松,就微微向后傾一些。不過(guò)不要傾斜得太過(guò)了,不然會(huì)讓你在前傾時(shí)顯得不尊重他人的私人空間,在后傾時(shí)又顯得不感興趣或者太自負(fù)。
6. Don't fidget. Don't fiddle with your hands or shake your leg because that can portraynervousness or restlessness. Relax and slow down your movements.不要坐立不安。不要一直動(dòng)你的手或是抖腳,那會(huì)表現(xiàn)出你的緊張。放松一點(diǎn),放慢動(dòng)作。
7. Stay uncrossed. Keep your hands and legs uncrossed because that can make you seemcold and distant. If you're not crossing your arms, you'll look more open and less guarded.